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[Oct. 14th, 2009|11:21 pm] |
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Dream guy.
Give me your definition on it.
Every girl must have a certain set of expectations and criteria on the guy they are searching for.
yeahyeah, don't ask me why I am on this topic!
I feel that some people just don't know what is good for them.
How perfect do you expect for the special one you are searching for when everyone has got their own flaws.
It is impossible for you to be perfect and how can you demand perfection from others.
From friends to dating couple and eventually to marriage consists stages and stages of obstacles, challenges and hurdles.
Initally when a man and a female got together, times were sweet, very sweet.
Because you endured, you tolerated for the sake of having that someone by your side.
HONEYMOON LARHH!
When time passed, humans tend to show their true selves bit by bit.
You dislike but you tried to ignore it.
Until when time comes to a point that you can't take the flaws you start to complain, you start to demand changes.
"Cant you change for me? Cant you do this for me? Cant you be nicer to me?" and the list goes on.
Especially when the time for the both of you gets longer, your demand increase but the supply from the guy's side naturally decrease.
They expect you to accept them for what they are after so long.
Okay, disagreements.
Conflicts and quarrels arised.
Some couldn't overcome them and breaking up became their only solution.
Haven't we realised how hard it is even for friends to get along for a long time without being upset with each other maybe a few times?
What can we say more about dating couples?
For two different people with two different family backgrounds and environment to get together and blend it as one is NOT an easy task.
There must be something in each other that made you irritated and upset.
But if you really truely love that someone, you accept.
You can nag, you can frown and you can complain but you never give up.
Bcos once you gave up, you destroyed the hopes in the other party too.
And when you think you are ready for him/her again, things may not be the same for them anymore.
You gave it all up on your own.
HUHHHHHHHH.
Actually I am fine, there is nothing going on between my bf and me.
I just have this urge to write out such thoughts.
My bf and I are perfectly fine at the moment! HAHAHA.
Please dont misunderstand.
I just feel that sometimes people just like to blame on the imperfections on others but didnt reflect much on themselves.
There are also a few points that I dislike in my bf, but this is him.
The real him.
If he can remove the flaws for me, of cause I will be delighted. But if he is unable to, I also must understand because this is him.
I am not perfect.
In fact as a girlfriend, I have realized I have quite a few bad points too (unreasonable at times, slightly over-sensitive, demanding at times)
And he accepted me as well!
Because he loves me and I love him.
Love the imperfections.
Because the little imperfections make the relationship perfect. :) |
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